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March 9, 2023

“Would You Cheat On Me With Him?” – My Husband Asked Me.

“Would You Sleep With Him? Would you cheat on me with him?”

So, this is not what it seems.

My husband and I have a very honest relationship. It’s no secret that I have a thing for fictional characters, most notably from video games. A lot of these characters wind up in my Fan-Fiction stories, the smutty ones.

My husband and I joke sometimes about my “fictional husbands and lovers.” My step-kids (teens) know that my husband is the best-looking man to me and only one other rivals him: Solas.

Solas is my favourite character from the Dragon Age video games franchise. He is an elf, a complex character with angst and a lore-heavy backstory, and as far as video game characters go, looks like my husband.

I’ve speculated in the past which characters I would date if I existed in those realms and if I were single and my husband was not in those realms with me. Some of them, yes, some of them, no.

But I never thought about if any of those characters were ever to appear in our realm, our world. Would I be tempted to be intimate with them then?

My husband one day asked me, out of the blue:

“If Solas appeared in our world, appeared here, would you sleep with him? Would you cheat on me with him?”

I was a little taken aback, I’m not gonna lie, and I did ask him, “Where is this coming from?”

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January 7, 2023

“I Love You,” Was The Best Holiday Gift I Ever Got!

By binkyproductions

Lucy Socha invited me to write about the worst and best holiday gifts I ever received.

My birthday is close to the Solstice so I sometimes get gifts combined. Though, I don’t really do gifts with my family much anymore. We sometimes do gifts, but since I can’t afford them, I don’t expect them.

My mom and siblings always know what to give when they gift me things, they always know what I need, be it a video game I wanted, socks, vitamins, soap, money, or a nice sweater. My sister knows where I shop and we sometimes even have the same top from the same store, so it’s always fun when she picks an extra one for me.

The worst gift I ever got was…

From a friend who gave me perfumed bath products. I’m allergic to perfumes and fragrances. Both to breathe and on my skin. So yeah, I gave it to another friend several months later who was really happy to receive the kit. She knew it was a hand-me-down gift and was happy I had thought of her for it.

Best gift…

Like I said, my mom, sister, and brother tend to know what to get me. My husband and I give the gift of time spent together, or a massage, or something fun like that that we do for the other.

I think the best gift I ever got was from my dad.

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January 3, 2023

And Nothing Else Mattered! A Most Cherished Memory Anecdote

By binkyproductions

I was staying over at a friend’s house where she lived with her boyfriend, John, who had become a good friend of mine through her. At the time, I was dating a mutual friend of theirs. The three of them convinced me, as in twisted my arm, to watch The Ring.

I’m not into horror movies.

In fact, I have some bad experiences with horror and gory stuff.

But they said I’d be safe; we’d smoke some joints, all would be well.

“All right, but if I scream, that’s on you.’

So we installed ourselves to watch, and I was huddled to my date — who was laughing about my anticipated fear, by the way — all tense the whole way through.

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December 20, 2022

I Was Grinding Up Against Him! But I’ll Never Know What He Said To Me!

By binkyproductions

I was an extra for a local show, called Minuit Le Soir. It was a mature show about folks running a nightclub. My role, along with tons of other extras, was to be a partygoer dancing at the club.

It was strange to do these scenes in the day, make it look like night, and be huddled on one side to make it look more packed than it actually was.

One of the actors, Danny Gilmore, was one helluva hunk. He had played a Polish character in a series when he’d been a bit younger and I remembered him well. His character in this show was a guy with large braces whose metal stuck out far. You know, the kind that is partly outside the mouth.

Even with that contraption he was hot.

He wasn’t in every scene, but I had my eye on him in every scene I was in.

I made a few friends there — well, friends for the day. We were all dressed for clubbing, and danced together, some of us showing moves to others, trying different moves. As the scenes progressed, I gained confidence in my club dancing skills.