Category Archives: What Is Love To You (Medium)

And Nothing Else Mattered! A Most Cherished Memory Anecdote

I was staying over at a friend’s house where she lived with her boyfriend, John, who had become a good friend of mine through her. At the time, I was dating a mutual friend of theirs. The three of them convinced me, as in twisted my arm, to watch The Ring.

I’m not into horror movies.

In fact, I have some bad experiences with horror and gory stuff.

But they said I’d be safe; we’d smoke some joints, all would be well.

“All right, but if I scream, that’s on you.’

So we installed ourselves to watch, and I was huddled to my date — who was laughing about my anticipated fear, by the way — all tense the whole way through.


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I Was Grinding Up Against Him! But I’ll Never Know What He Said To Me!

I was an extra for a local show, called Minuit Le Soir. It was a mature show about folks running a nightclub. My role, along with tons of other extras, was to be a partygoer dancing at the club.

It was strange to do these scenes in the day, make it look like night, and be huddled on one side to make it look more packed than it actually was.

One of the actors, Danny Gilmore, was one helluva hunk. He had played a Polish character in a series when he’d been a bit younger and I remembered him well. His character in this show was a guy with large braces whose metal stuck out far. You know, the kind that is partly outside the mouth.

Even with that contraption he was hot.

He wasn’t in every scene, but I had my eye on him in every scene I was in.

I made a few friends there — well, friends for the day. We were all dressed for clubbing, and danced together, some of us showing moves to others, trying different moves. As the scenes progressed, I gained confidence in my club dancing skills.

I saw him looking my way from off-camera, smiling.


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Kissing Gods To Cook More Crêpes!

“Low-key” Holiday What Is Love To You Challenge Answers

What Is Love To You has another challenge, and I accept it! I embrace it! Come to my bosom, challenge. (Okay, this is meant in a motherly way.)

Who I’d Love To Kiss

If this can be a video game character, I’ll say Solas (a character from Dragon Age who is an ancient elven god). He needs hugs. Poor guy tried to save his ancient elven people and caused mass destruction and turmoil instead. Now he thinks the only way to restore the old world is to destroy the current one, and he’s preventing himself from being with the woman he loves because he believes he must continue this self-sabotaging mission.

(Wow, I actually explained that in just one paragraph! I could gush about him for ages! — I’m not kidding — And in Dragon Age, ages are 100 years long.)

And I mean, just look at him.

Oh, does it have to be a real live person? In that case…


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My Characters Are Sexy Because I’M Sexy!

“10 Sexy Truths About Me” Prompt Challenge

I love making love to my love, my husband. I also love writing characters who make love. At times, my Erotic Romance short stories reflect my preferences and turn-ons. At times they even reflect things I have done in real life.

And it’s funny, I used to be so uncomfortable when it came to asserting myself sexually due to sexual abuse.

Can you believe I once believed I wasn’t sexy!?

As I healed, I became more assertive, I dared to explore writing more sexual scenes. As I write more erotic scenes, the more assertive I feel sexually, and I realised it helps me heal. So the more I write about love, romance, and erotic scenes, the more assertive I become, the more I assert myself sexually and romantically, the more comfortable I am writing love, romance and erotic scenes.

Such a wonderful loop of sensual confidence!


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