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My Characters Are Sexy Because I’M Sexy!

“10 Sexy Truths About Me” Prompt Challenge

I love making love to my love, my husband. I also love writing characters who make love. At times, my Erotic Romance short stories reflect my preferences and turn-ons. At times they even reflect things I have done in real life.

And it’s funny, I used to be so uncomfortable when it came to asserting myself sexually due to sexual abuse.

Can you believe I once believed I wasn’t sexy!?

As I healed, I became more assertive, I dared to explore writing more sexual scenes. As I write more erotic scenes, the more assertive I feel sexually, and I realised it helps me heal. So the more I write about love, romance, and erotic scenes, the more assertive I become, the more I assert myself sexually and romantically, the more comfortable I am writing love, romance and erotic scenes.

Such a wonderful loop of sensual confidence!


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The Worst Typo Ever!!!

It’ll Make You Spit Your Drink!

I don’t even know how I missed it!

I made THE worst typo EVER!

It was in the manuscript of the second instalment of my Stardust Destinies novel series. The one I’m currently Typesetting.

I proof-read the story multiple times. I had written it by hand and proof-read it before typing it. I self-edited it, grammar checked it, SPELL Checked it (using Word), I used GRAMMARLY for crying out loud! I LINE EDITED IT.

It was my editor who caught it.

The Context:

Bahvley is a supporting-main character in the series. He is on a mission with several others who find an injured ally.

Bahvley instantly falls in love with her.


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When Trauma Flashbacks Kick You In The Butt, Make Crêpes!

Because If Nothing Else, I Am Enough For Myself!

Today has been full of emotional challenges, some of which I won’t get into, but needless to say, Trauma Voice, whom I like to call Fear Voice, has been kicking my butt.

Living with Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder ain’t easy. It is a trauma-based response, once which I have been healing from A LOT.

Who Is Fear Voice

Fear Voice is the voice of trauma that perpetuates the brainwashing and abuse that I lived. It can be things from childhood trauma, it can be minute things too, things that hurt me even if just briefly, and it can be everything my abuser would tell me and do to me. That is why Fear Voice is a “he.”


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Shining Stars and Cruel Curses

Sayings and Insults from Stardust Destinies Epic Fantasy Adventure with Romance stories

There are several sayings in the world of Stardust Destinies, some with sinister origins.

“May the Stars Shine Upon You.”

This saying is a farewell wish. It means the speaker is wishing the other safe travels and to remain protected.

The stars are spirits of magical beings who passed on through stardust into a different realm beyond. They can come down and guide others. It is said they guide them to protect them or help them discover truths — without revealing what they know, however, for it is up to the living to discover these truths themselves.

However, there was a time, long before recorded history, when a powerful being had so much malice and power, his magic cast a veil upon the sky and the stars were shrouded, unable to help or guide, unable to be seen, and the threat of utter destruction of the lands loomed in the air. It is unknown what happened to this being or how this being was defeated, but since then, anyone who wishes another well and safety, wishes for the stars to guide them, for as long as the stars shine, life and magic are safe.


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