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Binky Productions is a video production company that produces Films, Commercial Videos and Multimedia for artists. Binky Ink is the writing division for freelance and fiction writing, as well as screenplay formatting. Celinka Serre is also a YouTuber for Dragon Age gaming, and Green Healing for alternative and natural healing from abuse.

Is Kissing Cheating? A Story of Ill-Defined Monogamy.

Ask me this today, and I’d say it depends on how you define your relationship with your partner.

For example, for me and my husband, with our needs and desires, wants and expectations, kissing someone else is cheating for us. That is our monogamy.

I understand not all relationships are the same. There are very happy poly relationships, in which case kissing might be considered okay.

But what happens when a relationship is NOT defined?
Can you expect your partner to not kiss someone else?

Ask me this 15 years ago and I would have thought that cheating was ONLY having sex with someone else.

I was in an ill-defined relationship with a junkie. We were four months into the relationship at that time. It was New Year’s Eve.

(Yeah, you probably see where this is going.)

My family had organised something at my sister’s. The junkie called to say he was feeling unwell, coming down with something, and preferred to sleep it off. Concerned, we all told him well wishes, despite me feeling bummed.

My family and I had a wonderful and relaxing celebration at my sister’s.

When we got home, a bit past midnight, I still felt like I wanted to see him. He didn’t live far, and his roommate V, who’d become a good friend of mine by this time, had told me to pass by the apartment once I got home so we could hang out in celebration a bit anyway.

So my mom and I prepared some remedies and brews for me to bring to the junkie to help him feel better.

I walked over to his place. When V buzzed me up, he apologetically admitted that the junkie was not home. It turned out the junkie had gone to a party with his long-time friends. I was stunned and disappointed.

He ditched me for a party!


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A Day In The Life of A Programmer (His POV)

This story is a direct complement to “A Day In the Life of A Romance Writer.” This story is written from Hubby’s POV.

The alarm wakes me and I am instantly broody. I hate waking up so early to grind all day at work at a job I’ve been at for so long. But, a man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do.

(Enjoy this next part of the story accompanied by this song.)

I take a deep breath, steeling myself for the day ahead.

As I inhale, I feel my wife’s soft hands on my skin. She moans softly, waking. She knows I’ll be leaving the bed where she will continue to sleep, alone, and with not as much warmth.

It pains me to have to leave her side. I take her hand and she smiles, slowly opening her eyes. She doesn’t need to say it, I know by the way she’s looking at me, but she says it anyway, expressing her desire for me. It breaks my heart to turn her down.

Some mornings, when I don’t have to be at the office, I allow some time to indulge in our love with the passion that I feel for her. But not this morning, I can’t, no matter how much I wish I could sleep longer, hold her in my arms and make love to her just to make her go crazy for me in the ways that make her screams fill me with elation.

I sigh, and she knows. I express I wish there was time and she seems satisfied with that, but I can see in her eyes the disappointment that I must now get up.

She moves aside to let me do my thing, and where her arms were wrapped around me now feel cold. I want her warmth again. But looking at the clock, I know there’s no time to waste.

(Enjoy this next part of the story accompanied by this song starting at 1:38.)

When I get to work, it’s meeting after meeting. At least I don’t have to decide in what order to do these tasks. I lead my team and guide the programmers working with me. I explore solutions and express my discontent with some issues we’ve been having. It’s a long and tedious day, and I’m glad I don’t have to go running around the shops after work today.

The banter I share with my colleagues lifts my spirits as we commiserate together. Some clients are being difficult…again. But we quickly find a solution…or part of one. Hehe, when we tell the president of the company about all this, he’s going to have a field day with jokes about what we discovered today.

When I get home, my wife runs to me and wraps her arms around me. ‘My love!’ we both express and we kiss, sharing lovey-doveys. She smiles giddily and her eyes twinkle with the joy I know I bring her. I hope she can see in my eyes that she too makes me feel that same joy.


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A Day In The Life of A Romance Writer

(Enjoy this part of the story accompanied by this song that begins at 1:02.)

I sit at the table, finishing my breakfast, looking out at the rain coming down, a soft pitter-patter on the balcony. My mind drifts to the time Hubby and I made love in the rain in the backyard at the old house. The hedges all around the yard, taller than six feet, allowed for much privacy in the evenings and at night.

It had been a warm day, that time. Not a cold March like today.

I sigh, having only been awake a couple of hours and already missing Hubby like mad. I always miss him. I can get lost in my work, but I pine over him all the time. Sometimes I worry that I have too many needs…or unreasonable needs.

No, these are just my needs. A lot of intense emotions. And he’s always been more than happy to do his best to fulfil them whenever he can. Else he would have said something sooner. It’s been almost twelve years.

I much prefer it when he’s working from home, though, which he does a couple of days per week. I can see his face, hear his meetings (haha), and get a kiss and hug whenever I want. He beckons me with our sweet talk and we can exchange silly banter on the fly.

I sigh again. Well, these dishes aren’t going to do themselves.

(Enjoy the next part of the story accompanied by this song.)

I trudge away at the day, getting a few things done around the house and getting some writing done. I love that I get so inspired and lose myself in my characters. But I feel what they feel so intensely, and since there is romance in everything I write, whether for teens or my more mature stories, it makes me miss Hubby even more.

I feel a pang in my heart, in my stomach. Ugh. This is the fate that has befallen me, of being such a highly sensitive emotional writer. This pang is my character’s, but I feel it as though it were mine. And now I need Hubby to wrap his arms around me even more.

Finally, the day is through, a half-day for me (thank goodness), and Hubby has come home. He’s set his things down and washed up to prepare the meal, and I offer to assist him with some of the supper preparations. As we do this, Hubby shares his day with me.

It’s a lot of fun to hear the latest stories from work. I used to work there too before we met. I started there before he did. He’s been at that company for over ten years now. I know the president and vice-pres of the company. I know all of Hubby’s colleagues, or most of them, I know the clients, and the systems and software used by the company. I can follow along about the latest gossip or anecdotes as though I were there living it with him. It’s a lot of fun to hear about his days. I can imagine the people, their faces, their voices, their reactions. I know them, so it’s easy to picture it all.

We exchange more silly banter as we prepare supper and set the food to cook.

Hubby wraps his arms around me and kisses my forehead.

(Enjoy the next part of the story accompanied by this song.)

‘It’s Mando tonight,’ I say.

‘I know,’ he replies.


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